Did you know that your inner life reflects and mirrors your outer life and vice versa? Everything you experience outside of you, you experience inside of you. If you are experiencing chaos, confusion, despair, restlessness on the inside that is what you will see and experience on the outside in your family, relationships, friendships, work, community and in the world. However, if you experience peace, harmony, clarity, love that is what you will see and experience on the outside. The choice is yours….what would you rather experience?
It is that simple……However, when we have been conditioned by the outside since birth and not taught to listen and connect to our inner selves / world, then our state of mind is dictated by everything out there, our inner self is neglected (in it’s wounded child state). This makes it difficult to change not impossible just difficult. As my son repeatedly said when he was 2 years old to my surprise… ‘Anything is possible!’. Most of us have lived at least half our lives like this. Yet, once we are aware of this, we can start the journey to change it, we can start to look inside of ourselves, find our own inner compass, it is not a smooth, linear, flat path, it is twisty, rocky and at times a real uphill struggle, but you will reap the rewards of your perseverance, determination and WILL to create a better life for yourself.
Unless you uncover and grieve for your wounded inner child parts they will always show up ‘out there’. You can start to notice this by observing your thoughts, feelings and behaviour and what you see in the world and other people. For example, if you are angry towards others or you notice other people’s anger, you have an angry child part with in you, if you feel people neglect you, don’t notice you or you notice the neglect in others or the world, you have a child part with in you that is being neglected.
Remember once you change yourself everything around you will change. With the right support and nurturing environment anyone can change and not only change but flourish into a new you, which you never knew existed!